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Started the blog when I was a reluctant stay at home mum of two, now back at work and life is even more crazy! This blog is about combining work, home and everything else. I've two kids (aged five and three), youngest has Downs Syndrome, have one partner and no pets (the smelly goldfish went to the big bowl in the sky!)

Tuesday, 29 May 2012


Wow! This weather has been amazing! No problems filling these days, the only worry has been have they got enough sunscreen on! Got the paddling pool out last week and the sun has warmed it up enough that even I've been prepared to dip a toe in! We have also been watering plants and cooling off with the hose (no ban where I live!!)

I've been trying to self improve as well, I'm on week five of couch to 5k. I did it about two years ago but stopped at the end of the nine weeks, determined to keep it up this time. I've actually found I've been looking forward to going out running and was out at 8.10am on Saturday to avoid the heat. Saw some awful photos of me taken at the weekend, thought I was looking slim and lovely but looked really blobby - need to add some sit ups I think. I've also been putting away the iPad/laptop/phone in the evening and reading (albeit on a kindle). Currently reading Night Waking. I've not finished it yet, but am enjoying it.

Right need to get up (!!) its Rhymetime today!

Monday, 14 May 2012

Surviving the park

Well, just in the nick of time here it is...

Since becoming a stay at home mum going to the park has become one of our favourite, cheapest and easiest things to do. But it's also one thing where I've learnt to follow the boy scout motto and "be prepared".

1) Find a nice park - sounds simple but it really is better if the park is one you all like going to. We have two near-ish to us but we prefer 'the little park'. So called because it is the smaller of the two. It's a two minute drive and a 10/15/20/30 minute walk depending on the walkers willingness! There's a good range of equipment for all ages, a few benches (not enough though, and some picnic tables would be fab too - can you hear me city council?!) and it's all enclosed.

2) Bring snacks - first few times I made the mistake of not bringing snacks and had the mortification of my child hovering round the mum who did have snacks looking waif-like. Now I bring stuff for me, my kids and other random kids too. Sometimes before we go we walk to the local coffee shop and get me a big coffee (coffee cart would do a roaring business in the park) and then we are all happy! I've also administered emergency biscuits to injured children and it's a good way of helping break the ice with other parents.

Which brings me to

3) Talk to people - I've given up caring about looking like a loon. Most other parents there are happy to have a chat. As a naturally shy person I tend to be nervous of talking to people but it's easy to strike up a conversation 'how old are they?', 'lovely weather', or more likely 'terrible weather!'. It means the next time you go there may be a familiar face there and friendships bloom. Well, to be honest, I've not made true friends from going to the park but I have made people I can say hello and pass the time with.

4) Entertainment for you - this is where the iPhone comes into its own. If there's no one to talk to then you can look at the web, take photos, listen to the radio etc etc. I tried bringing a book, kindle and paper but it never really seemed to work; the need to occasionally check on the children meant I kept losing my place.

Other top tips? Be prepared for all weather I bring sunglasses and gloves with me, have rediscovered the joys of the body warmer (or gillet to my mum!) for layering up and find a big scarf to be useful for neck and knees!

Monday, 7 May 2012

Still crap...

So, still not managed to actually do a, you know, proper post. But I do know what it's going to be about! It's going to be about *clears throat* surviving going to the park. I promise (to me as I'm the only one reading this) I'll do it this week. I'm finding the days spinning away from me; the house is getting messy, little easy chores are not getting done so I'm setting myself some mini challenges each day this week. Tomorrows is to go to the bank and cancel a direct debit and to bring all the stuff I put in bags for the charity shop to the charity shop. Instead of letting them sit in the hall for another two months! Wish me luck!

Tuesday, 17 April 2012

Two months later...

Well. That was a bit crap - one post and then nothing! To be honest it's been busier, and much more fun than I imagined. So, how are we filling the days? Well we've got into a simple routine: Monday pottering, Tuesday Booktrust Rhymetime in the library and a trip to the "cafe" (Starbucks to you and me), Wednesday mums and tots, Thursday a different mums and tots (not as good as the Wednesday one) and the Friday my partner is off too so we do shopping and then lunch.

Afternoons have been the longest, my oldest one is at preschool 12.30-3.00 and the stretch from three to tea time seems really long sometimes, there has been a bit too much tv watching for me to be comfortable with... But today we are going to make crispie buns!

Wednesday, 15 February 2012

Where do I start...

As of tomorrow, I am a stay at home mum. Not really through choice my fab job has come to an end and until I find something new I need to take the kids out of daycare, fire up the glitter and glue and be a stay at home mum!

So why the blog? Well, for something to do (cause with two kids under four I'm going to have a lot of free time!), to share some of our probably feeble attempts to fill the day (hence the name) and to give other mums (and dads) some ideas for how to fill the hours between wake-up and bedtime. In the book 'About a Boy' the main character talks about how he views the day in chunks of 30 minutes to be filled. I know that feeling, my golden hour is 5pm from then I know we're on the slide to bedtime.

But it won't all be babies and stuff, I'll also talk about books, and films, and celebrity gossip (lots of links to the Daily Mail I expect!) and Down's Syndrome (more of that later) and job hunting... basically anything that takes my interest!